SET THE TONE.

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The good book( Bible) says guard your heart, for from it comes out waters of life.
Whaat! This caught my attention for i am this kind of person that goes an extra Mile to make people in my circle comfortable, unfortunately it is not always the case with Them and i know most of you can relate.
So here i am to guard my heart and one way of doing that is letting toxic people go. I wish it was an  easy task but nah!
Toxic people come wrapped well and perfectly packaged. It will take a third eye for you to indentity them.
They are people who will take advantage of your kindness,exergerate your weakness and always make you feel as if their is a better person than you somewhere.
So clean up your house,set the tone right,their is so much hurt in the world,you dont need more.
Find your tribe( people that celebrate your small winning and appreciate you just the way you are) and love them hard.
Is it a lover,friend acquittance or even yourself? 
Drop them like a hot 🥔 in your mouth and thank me later.Dont be the enemy of your own progress.
With Love,
Agatha.

Comments

  1. UnknownJune 4, 2020 at 12:51 AM

    Woooow! Go go girl. U were born for this.
    You have reminded me to delete some people from my life.

    ReplyDelete
  2. UnknownJuly 16, 2020 at 5:39 AM

    Well said, I love the way you share it with the whole of your heart

    ReplyDelete

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